
Masturbation
Autoeroticism
Added 21 Jun 2026 · Updated 7 Sep 2026
An interest in solo sexual activity and self-stimulation as a preferred or significant source of pleasure, distinct from partnered sex. Clinically called autoeroticism, it is a near-universal, benign aspect of human sexuality.
- Prevalence
- Ultra-common
- Category
- Acts & Activities
- Clinical term
- Autoeroticism
- Domain
- Sexual interest
- Confidence
- Medium confidence
- Status
- A normal, healthy sexual behaviour that no manual lists as a paraphilia. Clinically relevant only when it becomes compulsive and distressing.
- Also known as
- Solo / autoerotic activity interest, masturbation interest, solo play, self-pleasure focus, autoeroticism, self-stimulation, autofellatio
- Added
- 21 Jun 2026
- Updated
- 7 Sep 2026
Overview
Masturbation, clinically termed autoeroticism, is the self-stimulation of one's own body for sexual pleasure. As a catalogued interest the term denotes a focus on solo activity as a meaningful or preferred mode of sexual expression in its own right. For most people it is a normal, healthy component of their sexuality. Some give it a particular emphasis, valued for autonomy, control over pace and fantasy, and freedom from the negotiation that partnered sex involves.
Examples
What the term covers. As a catalog entry this indexes an emphasis. It covers people for whom solo activity is a settled and valued part of sexual life alongside an active partnered one; people drawn to the control of pace, privacy and fantasy it allows; people who build routines, media or aids around it; and people for whom it is unremarkable background. Mutual masturbation (partners stimulating themselves alongside or for one another) is autoerotic in method and partnered in setting, and sits inside the same territory.
What it does not cover. Several adjacent entries name things layered on top of solo activity rather than synonyms for it. Edging is delaying climax on purpose; gooning is the prolonged, trance-like state built on edging; jerk-off instruction adds a directing partner; orgasm denial is a power-exchange dynamic in which someone else holds the permission. A handjob is the partnered case, the same physical activity performed by someone else, a social distinction rather than a physical one. Mirror and recording interests describe what accompanies the act rather than the act. Compulsive sexual behaviour is a separate clinical matter defined by distress and impairment, not by how often someone masturbates.
How the word is used. Masturbation is both the plain-English and the clinical term, which is unusual in this catalog; autoeroticism is the formal synonym used in psychiatry and onanism the dated religious-moral one, now archaic outside historical writing. Neither DSM-5-TR nor ICD-11 lists it as a disorder or a paraphilia. The diagnostic manuals dropped it generations ago, and modern clinical writing treats it as a baseline of ordinary sexual behaviour.
History & origins
The behaviour is as old as humanity and appears in art and texts from antiquity. Society's attitude toward it is what has a history, and that attitude swung from indifference to moral panic to medical normalisation.
Etymology and early framing
- The English word masturbation entered the language around 1711 (with the earlier form mastupration attested in the 1620s), derived from Modern Latin masturbari: most likely an alteration of manstuprare, combining manus ("hand") and stuprare ("to defile"), with influence from turbare ("to disturb"); a minority view derives the first element from an unattested mazdo- ("penis").
- The competing term onanism (from 1727) takes its name from the biblical figure Onan and framed the act in religious-moral terms.
The long anti-masturbation panic
- c. 1716: the anonymous London pamphlet Onania, or the Heinous Sin of Self-Pollution recast the practice as a grave bodily and moral danger and set off a wave of anxiety.
- 1760: the Swiss physician Samuel-Auguste Tissot published L'Onanisme, an influential medical treatise arguing that loss of semen caused "a perceptible reduction of strength, of memory and even of reason." Tissot's disease model dominated Euro-American medicine for roughly two centuries.
- 19th century: Victorian medicine pathologised "onanism", blaming it for insanity, blindness and a catalogue of ailments; Richard von Krafft-Ebing's Psychopathia Sexualis (1886) still treated excessive masturbation as pathological.
Normalisation in the modern era
- 1897: Havelock Ellis, in his Studies in the Psychology of Sex, concluded that moderate masturbation in healthy individuals produced no seriously harmful results, and the scientific rehabilitation of the behaviour began with him.
- 1948 & 1953: the large-scale Kinsey Reports documented that masturbation was one of the most common of all human sexual outlets. In Kinsey's data the great majority of men and a clear majority of women reported having masturbated, and the statistics undermined the disease model.
- 1968 / 1972: the DSM-II lineage dropped masturbation from its disorders and the American Medical Association affirmed it as a normal behaviour, completing the shift from sin to symptom to ordinary human sexuality.
In practice
People express the interest through private self-pleasure, often paired with fantasy, erotic media, or favoured routines and aids. Some integrate it with adjacent interests such as fantasy scenarios, sensory preferences, mirrors, or consensual recording; others keep it plain and self-contained. As a clinical, non-explicit reference the catalogue notes the focus on solo activity and leaves technique out.
Psychology
Is masturbation normal?
Yes. Clinicians regard solo sexuality as a healthy, developmentally normal behaviour across the lifespan. Researchers associate it with self-exploration, stress relief, easier sleep onset and bodily familiarity. A strong preference for it can reflect temperament, life circumstances, relationship status or individual taste, and none of those is a sign of dysfunction. The modern clinical literature treats common solo activity as normative, in line with framings such as Joyal, Cossette & Lapierre (2015).
Prevalence & culture
How common is masturbation?
Survey research ranks masturbation among the most prevalent of all human sexual behaviours. In Britain's National Surveys of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal), reported masturbation in the past month rose from 73.4% to 77.5% in men and 37.0% to 40.3% in women between Natsal-2 (1999–2001) and Natsal-3 (2010–12), per Fischer and colleagues' published analysis (Journal of Sex Research, 2025). US lifetime figures are higher still: large majorities of adults of every gender report having masturbated. That places the interest near the top of the prevalence scale among catalogue entries. Cultural and religious attitudes still vary widely. The behaviour itself is near universal, and mainstream health media now discuss it openly, as lay surveys of common sexual interests reflect.
Safety, consent & law
The interest is benign, private and consensual by nature, with no safety or legal concerns of its own. Clinical attention arises only in the uncommon case where the behaviour becomes compulsive and distressing to the person or interferes with daily functioning, a pattern clinicians address under compulsive sexual behaviour.
Common questions
Is it possible to masturbate too much?
There is no frequency that is medically "too much": clinicians do not work from a number. They look at interference: whether the behaviour displaces work, sleep, relationships or obligations, and whether the person feels unable to stop despite wanting to. Clinicians assess that pattern as compulsive sexual behaviour in its own right. Frequency alone, however high, is no diagnosis.
Does masturbation cause any physical harm?
No. The catalogue of harms people still half-remember (blindness, insanity, weakness, hair on the palms) descends from the eighteenth- and nineteenth-century disease model set out in Onania and Tissot's L'Onanisme, and none of it survived scientific scrutiny. The only routine physical issue is local soreness or irritation from friction, which resolves on its own.
Is it normal to never masturbate?
Yes. The prevalence figures make this plain: in the British Natsal surveys analysed by Fischer and colleagues, a substantial minority of men and a clear majority of women reported no masturbation in the past month. Not doing it says nothing about low desire, repression or dysfunction; it is one end of an ordinary distribution, and people move along it over a lifetime.
Is masturbation cheating if you are in a relationship?
There is no general answer, because the question concerns an agreement, and the behaviour on its own settles nothing. Most couples treat solo activity as private and unremarkable; some negotiate expectations around it, in particular where erotic media or camming is involved. A betrayal is a breach of a shared understanding, so the useful move is to establish what that understanding is.
What is the difference between masturbation and autoeroticism?
They name the same thing at different registers: autoeroticism is the clinical and academic term, masturbation the everyday one. The confusion worth flagging is that most people meet the word "autoerotic" only in the phrase "autoerotic asphyxiation," which is something else: see erotic asphyxiation and breath play, which carry real and serious risk that ordinary solo activity does not.
Why does masturbation still feel like something to be ashamed of?
Because the shame is inherited. For roughly two centuries European and American medicine taught that the behaviour caused disease, and religious teaching had framed it as sin before that. Medicine reversed itself across the twentieth century, and the emotional residue outlived the doctrine, which is why a near-universal behaviour is still among the least openly discussed.
- Mirror Fetish35/100Catoptrophilia · Acts & ActivitiesAn interest in using mirrors during intimacy to observe oneself or a partner, finding the reflected view of bodies and activity arousing. It is a common, benign visual preference rather than a clinical condition.35
- Recording Fetish44/100Acts & ActivitiesAn interest in photographing or recording one's own consensual sexual activity, where capturing the moment and later viewing the imagery is itself arousing. It is benign when every adult depicted consents and the material is kept private.44
- Handjob59/100Acts & ActivitiesA non-penetrative act in which one person stimulates a partner's penis by hand. It is among the most common partnered sexual behaviours, used as foreplay, as a complete act in itself, and as a lower-risk alternative to intercourse.59
- Exhibitionism72/100Acts & ActivitiesArousal from being seen, watched, or displaying oneself to willing audiences within agreed limits. As a consensual interest it is a common, non-pathological variation of erotic expression, distinct from the clinical disorder that involves exposure to non-consenting observers.72
- Facial71/100Acts & ActivitiesA facial is a non-penetrative sexual act in which a man ejaculates onto a partner's face, usually as the closing moment of an encounter. It is a consensual practice and a staple pornographic convention, with no clinical status.71
- Fellatio71/100Fellatio · Acts & ActivitiesOral stimulation of the penis, one of the most widely practised partnered sexual behaviours. Documented since antiquity, criminalised for much of modern history under sodomy statutes, and now measured by every major national sex survey.71
From Latin *masturbari* 'to masturbate', of disputed origin: possibly from *manus* ('hand') + *stuprare* ('to defile'), or from *manus* + *turbare* ('to disturb'). The clinical synonym 'autoeroticism' combines Greek *autos* ('self') and *erōs* ('sexual love').
solo · self-stimulation · consensual
Prevalence is computed from the entry's cited population estimate. Rows marked ESTare indicative editorial estimates scored against a fixed anchor rubric, not measured quantities. Method & anchors: methodology.
Ultra-common · ≈ 1 in 5 or more
- 01An A–Z of Kinks and Fetishes, Glamoursolo play / self-pleasure as a mainstream, lay-framed common sexual interest
- 02Joyal, Cossette & Lapierre (2015), What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?, J. Sexual Medicine 12(2):328-340framing of solo/common sexual activities as normative rather than statistically rare
- 03Lehmiller (2018), Tell Me What You Want, survey of 4,175 Americanslarge general-population survey context for common consensual sexual behaviors
- 04Masturbation, Wikipediahistory of the term, Tissot/Onania moral panic, Kinsey-era normalization of the behavior
- 05History of masturbation, WikipediaOnania (c. 1716) pamphlet, Tissot's L'Onanisme (1760), Victorian pathologisation, Havelock Ellis (1897), Kinsey, and DSM-II/AMA normalisation
- 06Masturbation, Etymology, Origin & Meaning (Online Etymology Dictionary)first English attestation c. 1711; Latin roots manus ('hand') + stuprare ('to defile'), with influence from turbare ('to disturb')
- 07Kinsey Reports, Wikipedia1948 and 1953 Kinsey reports documenting masturbation as one of the most common human sexual outlets
- 08Trends in masturbation prevalence, British National Surveys of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal), Kinsey Institute, Indiana UniversityNatsal-2 (1999-2001) to Natsal-3 (2010-12) past-month masturbation figures: 73.4%-77.5% men, 37.0%-40.3% women
- 09Fischer et al. (2025), Trends in Masturbation Prevalence and Associated Factors: Findings from the British National Surveys of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles, Journal of Sex Research 63(4):498-509peer-reviewed source for the Natsal-2 to Natsal-3 rise in past-month masturbation (73.4%-77.5% men; 37.0%-40.3% women)
- 10Psychopathia Sexualis, WikipediaKrafft-Ebing's 1886 treatment of excessive masturbation as pathological in 19th-century medicine